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Have you ever had a secret love? Why did it have to be a secret? Did you ever let the secret out?
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Who can you compliment today?
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How do you allow yourself to be vulnerable? Why is it worth it?
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Who do you feel safest with? How do you make others feel safe when they’re with you?
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It can be devastating when you discover that you and your love don’t care about each other in the same way. How do you keep your heart open to being lucky and finding the right fit in the future?
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Sometimes we get busy and forget to reach out to people we care about. Who can you connect with today?
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Anonymous asked: Hi when interested in a girl do you look for a rainbow wristband?
HI,
Thanks for writing in… There is no real way to know if a girl is a queer girl just by looking at her outfit. Sometimes straight allies wear rainbow things to show that they support the queer community. Sometimes straight folks wear things that might make others assume they are gay, when they would never identify themselves that way. And sometimes queer girls “look straight.”
If you’re interested in a girl, try being friends first. Ask her to hang out, maybe study together or go get something to eat after school. As you begin to trust each other more you’ll be able to talk more openly about yourselves and who you are attracted to. If you feel safe enough and comfortable doing it, you might even try wearing a rainbow something yourself and see if she responds or notices.
The surest way to know who someone might be interested in is for that person to tell you. So try for a friendship, and if she discloses that she’s only interested in guys, then at least you’ll have a new friend.
Best of luck,
Cat
outnproud asked: hi this is the first time i ever do something like this, but i need some advice. A couple of weeks ago i met this beautiful girl in a bar, everything was fine until she told me she had a girlfriend, but still wanted to be with me, so we kissed and met the next day. I really like her and she says she likes me too, but i'm not sure she is going to leave her gf because they live together and she gives her everything she wants. i don't know what to do should i continue to see what happens? or not?
Hello!
This is a tricky situation for sure. I know that when you meet someone who you’re attracted to and the feeling is mutual, the pull is so strong that it can feel impossible to resist. However, you are treading on thin ice. You need to get clear about what you want for yourself. Are you interested in a non-monogamous situation? Is this girl being honest with her girlfriend about you? If not, does it feel ok for you to be part of a deception? And how might this affect you and the relationship with this girl down the road? Take some time to think about what you really want, and then try to make choices that support this. If you want a monogamous, committed relationship then this may be a very painful path for you to continue on. But maybe you are ok dating a girl who is partnered. My most important advice is to be honest! Mostly with your self. As well as with the girl. There is a lot of potential for you to fool yourself into thinking this is ok with you, even if it’s not. Knowing yourself and setting clear boundaries always pays off down the road, even if it means the pain of letting this girl go. You deserve to have your needs met, and only you can ask for this.
Best of luck to you!
Maya
iidentifyaswhatiam asked: "Allow yourself to cry, feel nothing, feel everything…" This hit home for me, harder than I can even begin to explain! Thanks for posting this, gives girls like me a little reassurance :)
So glad you found this page helpful. Take good care
Cat
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Sometimes being outside or spending time with animals can help us reconnect with ourselves.
If this is true for you, how do you spend time with nature to feel grounded?
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What do you think about when you’re by yourself?
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Can you try see your “failures” or shortcomings in a different light today?
Practice being patient with yourself.
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Can you tell someone they’re beautiful today?
And then make sure you tell yourself. Three or more times.
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