August 2011
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ashleyishbi asked:
Hello I’m questioning my sexuality I used to think I was bisexual, I used to be turned on by sex with a male but I don’t even like kissing a guy anymore. I used to date guys all the time and never date girls now it seems I only date girls and only girls turn me on. One of my girlfriends back in January told me that she thought I was a lesbian and wasjust scared...
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Anonymous Asked:
Hi. I am a sophomore in college. and have only ever dated guys. But I think I’m confused. I have liked a few girls before. I find them attractive but when I start talking to them I think “wait I’m not gay” and then drop the idea. Then a year ago, I ended up really falling for a girl. I know she liked me back as well. I had the opportunity to date her but I...
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WatchSue Costello talks about how “tough-ness” and strength are different things.
Whats the difference between being tough and being strong to you?
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Thank you for your awesomeness.
Queer Girl Questions reached 3000 followers last night! When I started this blog I thought it would be a cool thing to do with my free time. I honestly had no idea that so many people would respond to it in such a positive way. Thanks everyone. :)
Anonymous asked: I'm a girl, and I am pretty sure I am bi, if not a lesbian. But the thought of sex terrifies me. Sex with boys, sex with girls. I am at an age where most have had sex, and all are very interested in doing it. I want to as well, but the idea of it scares me. Is something wrong? (what do I do?)
Anonymous asked: So, I'm 17 living in a small town where Lesbians are burned on a stick half the time and the other half they are congratulated. I hate that everyone knows my business and has to put it on blast because they have nothing else to talk about. That's not the reason why I'm writing though. My issue is that I feel like I have two totally different lives ahead of me. I really like...
Anonymous asked: About two years ago I fully accepted that I was bisexual and started coming out about it. After turning 18 and having my son I began going to the local gay club and I'm VERY proud of my sexuality. Only my friends know though. I would like to tell my mom at the least but I'm not sure how. My parents are not homophobic by any means but I'm still scared. I think my mom my have an...
Anonymous asked: Hey (: Before I begin, I would just like to say how absolutely amazing this site is. I've been following you for a few months now and the advice and tips you give are so helpful and informative! Thank you so much on behalf of everyone who feels the same way I do (:
I don't really have anyone to go to for advice on these sort of things, the country I live in isn't...
I don't really have anyone to go to for advice on these sort of things, the country I live in isn't...
Anonymous asked: I'm automatically attracted to hot guys, and want to see if they're attracted to me. I like the thought of kissing them from time to time, but I can never see myself being in a relationship with one or taking it beyond kissing. I actually want a girl. I want to fall in love with a girl and be with a girl and adopt kids and get married to a girl. But I like the thought of fooling around...
kaitlyn-f-kitty asked: Hello... I don't know how to start so I'll just jump right in. I'm a seventeen year old "girl" and lately I have been really confused about my gender and sexual identities. I often read the questions, and your answers on this page and find you say that sexuality changes over time, so I guess I need not worry about that, but my gender identity is really confusing me....
Anonymous asked: My Girlfriend & I will soon be having sex for the first time and shes never experienced it before. . . How do you think i should go about it?
closetedlovetroubles asked: Haha, thank you for your advice.
We no longer work together, and she's moved home for the summer, and may not be returning due to complications with University.
I feel like I can't just do it over the phone, I need to say it to her face, so I can see her reaction. It sounds strange, but I'd rather see it for myself, rather then her not reply to a text.
Thing...
We no longer work together, and she's moved home for the summer, and may not be returning due to complications with University.
I feel like I can't just do it over the phone, I need to say it to her face, so I can see her reaction. It sounds strange, but I'd rather see it for myself, rather then her not reply to a text.
Thing...
Anonymous asked: How to know if you are gay or bisexual? I'm not attracted physically nor emotionally to boys anymore and I'm not interested in having a relationship with one either. I am only interested in girls, but I want to make sure I really am gay before announcing it
Anonymous asked: Where do I meet girls when I'm not out as bisexual yet and have a controlling mother who doesn't want to admit that I'm bisexual?
mangosupasonic-deactivated20130 asked: I would like to thank you for the advice you have given me. I'm the recent question that asked anonymously due to safety reasons. For a month now, I had been wrestling with the task of breaking it off or keep it going, but after tonight it was made clear, she and I weren't mean to be. Not now at least.
She needs to focus on school and cannot provide for a relationship....
She needs to focus on school and cannot provide for a relationship....
pretzelsnkarma asked: Question, is it possible to not have any terminology related to one's own sexuality, maybe because as a virgin, nothing has been fleshed out totally yet? Not that i don't respect every person in the world - and every terminology ever thought out, i just like to think me and a few of my friends are just down right sexual WHY? Because there are no words to describe when you drool at just...
Anonymous asked: So I'm not sure, but I think I may be bisexual. I know I like guys, but lately I'm starting to notice girls (a particular girl) in ways I haven't before. That particular girl is my best friend. How do I know that I actually like her and it's not just because we're close and I'm sexually frustrated or something like that. Help?
Anonymous asked: I'm confused as to whether I'm bisexual or a lesbian, as I've only liked one guy, but I don't anymore and it was years ago, and now I find myself lying when I agree with my friends when they say that male celebrities - or whoever they say - is hot. I don't seem to be feeling anything towards guys anymore, even the ones that my friends say are gorgeous. I also can't...
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living-to-be-me asked: is life worth living?
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Anonymous asked: Hey qgq, I'm 17 and a lesbian; I recently came out to my friends and family and for the most part I've gotten support and love. I feel so lucky to have such an amazing and accepting family. Now that I'm out, I feel like flirting and friendship is going to be difficult with girls. I feel like any girl I talk to will assume I'm hitting on them, or no one will realize I am and...
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Anonymous asked: How did you come out to your parents?
Mine have always thought I was straight & I have had boyfriends briefly in the past, now I've been with my girlfriend ages & I think it's time I came out but I don't want to upset or disrupt my family.. I just feel like I'm not being honest & I love her so much & wish that people could know her like I do and I want my...
Mine have always thought I was straight & I have had boyfriends briefly in the past, now I've been with my girlfriend ages & I think it's time I came out but I don't want to upset or disrupt my family.. I just feel like I'm not being honest & I love her so much & wish that people could know her like I do and I want my...
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Anonymous asked: I don;t think I'll ever come out as gay to my family. I could come out to new people I meet, but not my close friends and family. ever. And I promise myself to keep that secret. As sad as it is.
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Anonymous asked: I have a friend who's a lesbian, and she just recently came out to me, but she's really enthusiastic about her sexuality, and wants everyone at school to know. But she thinks that instead of telling people individually she should just tell the gossips so that it'll get spread around the school without her having to do any work. I was just wondering what your thoughts on that were....
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Anonymous asked: 17, cis female.
1)Where the *hell* do queer girls meet other queer girls? I live in the suburbs of a very gay city, but it's not really possible for me to go into the city very often for things like youth lgbt groups and such. I'm already very involved in my school's gsa, but there are no girls I like there. I've never really taken to the idea of meeting girls online,...
1)Where the *hell* do queer girls meet other queer girls? I live in the suburbs of a very gay city, but it's not really possible for me to go into the city very often for things like youth lgbt groups and such. I'm already very involved in my school's gsa, but there are no girls I like there. I've never really taken to the idea of meeting girls online,...
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Anonymous asked: Im am 99% sure im a lesbian, i have NEVER had any sort of attraction to any guy. But the other day at a party i had sex with a guy. Does this mean im bi? or could it just have happend cos i was really drunk and didnt know what i was doing? I feel sick whenever i think about what i did the other night. Im so confused, not sure if i like girls, guys or both.
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Anonymous asked: i've been thinking a lot about my sexuality lately, and i think i'm bisexual. i've told a few people that i am, but i'm still not 100%. it's just tough to know for sure because my feelings change every day. some days i only look at men, some days i only look at women. is that normal for a bisexual, or should i just give it more time?
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Anonymous asked: I'm attracted to both men and women. I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and five months now and I have a question: Is it normal to want other women when you're in a committed relationship? I mean, I know it's normal on some extent since I'm attracted to both genders, but sometimes I have these urges to just kiss a girl or makeout or etc. with a girl. I don't get...
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Anonymous asked: i'm feeling really confused at the moment. im 16 and i've never had crushes on guys before or found them particularly attractive. i can sometimes see a guy and thing "wow he's hot" but i don't want to have sex with him or anything. i've only kissed one guy before but i didn't want to go any further or even go out with him. i've had "crushes"...
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Anonymous asked: I'm a girl and I like girls but I've never felt sexual attraction towards any girls, just strong emotional attraction. I know I have a sex drive but is it possible that it could be for no one in particular, even people I really like? I'm confused about my feelings. Advice would be great :)
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Anonymous asked: How can one get over the feeling of lonelyness? I feel like I'm never gonna meet a girl perfect for me. I see all these amazing girls all over tumblr and it just makes my heart hurt.
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funsizee17-deactivated20120323 asked: ok so I was dating this girl megan who i loved but she was 16 im 18. her mom hated me. and we were fighting alot. I'm now dating candice who is 25 wants to settle down which is what i want. I love them both. Megan and i have kept in touch and she still loves me and cant get over me. I do love her too very much she was the first girl i told i love you too. But i love candice as well. Megan...
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Anonymous asked: hi. my girlfriend and i have been together for four months.. actually today marks four months (: i am her first girlfriend and its going great... but las tnight she started postin things about being genderqueer,,, when i asked her today she was like dont worry bout it which then made me really worry so i continued to ask her if she was genderqueer and she jsut kinda snapped and said idk and just...
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Anonymous asked: BTW I've tried clicking on some of you're FAQ links and some do not work. I still love your blog :)
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Anonymous asked: I had asked a question on here, well over a month ago, maybe even two, and it still hasn't been answered :(
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allhailtentaclelord asked: Heyaaa. So I have a fast developing crush on a bi girl. She said she couldn't picture herself dating a girl, but after she got drunk and kissed me, she's not completely sure. Do you think I should sort of try to slowly get into the dating pool with her, or just leave her as a drunken bi?
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Anonymous asked: how do you get over a break up? when do you know to date again and not feel burdened by the last relationship?
ilovelifemusic-deactivated20121 asked: what does it mean to be queer ? is it the same as being bi or lesbian ?
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Anonymous asked: I need help getting thoughts of suicide out of my head. But I can't cause I'm always alone with those thoughts.
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