June 2011
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urneighborhoodvillain asked: I really appreciation this blog... seriously.
May 2011
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What to do if you're outed before you're ready →
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Resources for Queers. Click Click Click on it →
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From Sunrooms: http://sunrooms.tumblr.com/
To the “lonely” 26 y/o bisexual female:
I agree wholeheartedly with Cat’s response. I am a 22 year old queer girl who has been single all my life, and I barely date. I’ve always assumed that I hadn’t met the right person, and stuff just wasn’t “working out” for me. However, last summer, I started to really...
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Hotlines for help when you need it →
Here is a list of hotlines and information lines for all kinds of needs. Some of them are national, some for California. This list doesn’t include every hotline ever known, so feel free to ask google if you want to connect with someone about a specific need but don’t see it listed. Hotlines can be for a person in crisis and many are 24 hours, (Like 1-800-SUICIDE). Other hotlines are for...
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Anonymous asked: I want to move to another city cause it's been really hard for me to find love and friends in the current city that I'm at. Is that a stupid decision, to move to a new place just to find love?
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Anonymous asked: Hi, I'm a 26 year old bisexual female. I've been out of the closet since I was 20. Ive been feeling very sad because Ive never had any kind of relationship (physical or emotional) with neither a woman nor a man. Ive been single all of my life, only went out on two dates (but thats as far as they went). I have good friends and a family that cares for me but I still feel very lonely and...
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The time for help is now. 24 hour Crisis number:...
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I… I need help. I don’t know what to do. I’ve told two people ever that I was really in love with my best friend. And then one of them started being rude and harassing me so i sort of stayed away from him, and I just found out that he told this guy who goes to the girl I like’s school ( I left the school but all my friends go there, I still live in the...
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iron-and-lace asked: I really respect what you do here. You answer every question asked of you with thought and insight. It's wonderful and inspirational. Thank you!
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Anonymous asked: I met this girl online about 8 months ago now. She showed me great love and affection, only to meet her 2 months after we started talking online.
The day she met me, she also met this other girl, who she had mentioned to me that she liked. When I met her, I also met her soon to be girlfriend.
This girl always tells me that she loves me and that she has said that she feels as...
The day she met me, she also met this other girl, who she had mentioned to me that she liked. When I met her, I also met her soon to be girlfriend.
This girl always tells me that she loves me and that she has said that she feels as...
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Anonymous asked: I'm a girl still a little fuzzy on the bi-curious to bi-sexual spectrum, currently in a long-distance relationship with a guy. He knows of my bi-sexual tendencies and accepts it. However, is it wrong for me to be bothered when he treats flirting/kissing men an obvious form of cheating, but when it comes to me kissing other girls (especially at parties where crazy stuff is likely to happen...
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Question for everyone
Just got asked this question and want to put it out there to everyone. What do you guys think? How do you start up conversations with girls over tumblr? Have you ever done that? “Theres this cute girl that I follow (& she follows me back). She’s really pretty and we’re from the same town… She seems cool and I wanna get to know her better without sounding like a...
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Anonymous asked: How long does it take to get an answer? Do you choose not to answer some questions?
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Anonymous asked: Where are the best places to meet lesbians?, (other than bars and clubs, I don't really like that, and sometimes I think that all the lesbians are in bars which sucks for me cause I'm more of a "stay at home watching TV on Saturdays" kinda person.
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Anonymous asked: I want to become a man (biologically I'm a female) but I have long hair, like really long hair, and I like it, can I still be considered a man even if i have long hair (I know Ive seen man with super long hair, but maybe for trans is different)
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Anonymous asked: (I know this is not a question but) I love this blog! It gives me lots to think about :)
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soyzorra asked: Thank you so much for posting that video :) It helped a lot!
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Hotlines for help when you need it
Here is a list of hotlines and information lines for all kinds of needs. Some of them are national, some for California. This list doesn’t include every hotline ever known, so feel free to ask google if you need to talk about a specific need but don’t see it listed. Hotlines are almost always confidential and anonymous, so feel free to ask these folks any questions you need to (related...
Anonymous asked: I'm the same girl who asked about the burning a few days ago. Neither of us have infections (both been to the gyno recently). Any other theories? Maybe its a pH problem? I have no idea. I would rather approach her with an idea of what the issue is than have us both in the dark. (She's not very science savvy so this is something I would figure out anyway.)
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Anonymous asked: What does it mean if you're interested in a girl sexually, but not emotionally or romantically? Does that mean that you are bi or what?
Anonymous asked: so i'm a queer girl who's headed off to college next year at a school that's not particularly known for having a large queer population. i would really really really like a girlfriend in college, since i never had one in high school. other than joining the gsa, how the heck am i supposed to meet other queer girls? and what do i do if there aren't any?
Anonymous asked: This is going to be longgg
So i met this girl in Sept :) At first we were friends and we COULDNT stop talking. we talked about the most randomness stuff. Then over Xmas when i went to CO we never stopped texting, we would play the 20 questions game and i thought it was so cute. Then i realized that i kinda liked her more then a friend...(this is the first girl i've thought about in...
So i met this girl in Sept :) At first we were friends and we COULDNT stop talking. we talked about the most randomness stuff. Then over Xmas when i went to CO we never stopped texting, we would play the 20 questions game and i thought it was so cute. Then i realized that i kinda liked her more then a friend...(this is the first girl i've thought about in...
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Should you come out to your parents? →
Anonymous asked: whats pansexual?
ps. I'm so glad i found this blog
ps. I'm so glad i found this blog
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Anonymous asked: so i'm really confused about my orientation right now...i know i'm sexually and romantically attracted to females, and i'm romantically attracted to males but not really sexually attracted to them. would that make me biromantic or homoromantic or whatever? i'm not really educated about the sexual preferences there are out there other than lesbian gay bisexual and pansexual, and...
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Anonymous asked: Hi QueerGirlQuestions!
Soooo, I'm 21 and I've been dating this girl for almost a year and I'm pretty much head-over-heels in love with her. She's my first girlfriend and everything is awesome except for one thing: I never orgasm when we have sex! I get really, really turned on but for some reason I never go over the edge. I can make myself orgasm when I...
Soooo, I'm 21 and I've been dating this girl for almost a year and I'm pretty much head-over-heels in love with her. She's my first girlfriend and everything is awesome except for one thing: I never orgasm when we have sex! I get really, really turned on but for some reason I never go over the edge. I can make myself orgasm when I...
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Anonymous asked: a while ago (long enough) i got out of a very long term relationship. after a significant time period of grieving and being miserable and depressed, i decided to start dating (sleeping around) again. i had a one night stand with this girl (shes not a random, shes best friends with a few of my good friends). but now its like... i sleep at her house 4-5 nights a week, literally. we had a talk at the...
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Anonymous asked: I discovered about a month ago (beginning of high school) that I'm a lesbian. I'm in love with my best friend (she's straight, but she's in GSSA at my school and very pro-gay rights). It's getting really hard to keep it a secret, and it's the only thing my friends don't know about me. I want to tell them, but they've said before that they would never have a...
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Anonymous asked: Okay, so theres this girl I like. Shes pretty and popular, but I'm like just a weird girl (i'm not the awkward kind of weird i just wear different clothes and listen to odd music and have a different kind of humor {some may call me hipster but ew, I don't like labels too much}) so, anyways I like her. We have gym together and its all pretty lax in the locker room and whatnot. Well,...
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Anonymous asked: okay. so. i'm gay. i am. and i just don't know how to meet girls. i live in a small town in the tri state area that is very straight. when i go to bigger cities/malls, i do notice queer girls, however, what's the chances of a true relationship with them? but i want one. i need one. to make it all worse, i don't look gay. my look is either athletic or slightly urban, but nothing...
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Anonymous asked: Ok so I have a question...just need your thoughts on this situation. ((Sorry for it being so long))
So it was my first time being with a girl (relationship I mean), Ive always been curious...VERY curious and it was new for me. Not to mention she was cute and had a great personality. When Im in a relationship Ive always been faithful, caring..and always honest. Just to throw that out...
So it was my first time being with a girl (relationship I mean), Ive always been curious...VERY curious and it was new for me. Not to mention she was cute and had a great personality. When Im in a relationship Ive always been faithful, caring..and always honest. Just to throw that out...
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Anonymous asked: Hi, so I'm a lesbian, but nobody knows. I even had a boyfriend at the beginning of the school year. I like this girl, but we're hardly even friends. I know she has a boyfriend, and though I've never seen them together, they've been together for a long time, and apparently they really love each other. It seems she's also very christian, but she doesn't seem all that...
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Anonymous asked: Hi. I identify as b i, but ever since the summer ive had my eye on trans guys, so now im questioning what i identify as. But thing is im 15, technicaly 16, im turning 16 on wednsday, but there are no trans guys where i live and i dnt know any my age. Which kinda sucks, but i dont know why but the girls who ive talked to (dating wise) have always either lead me on or have been straight. I dnt know...
