I know I'm gay...but Idk how to flirt or really speak to a girl in that way, I'm always nervous nd all I always end up just making best friends...wth can I do how do I speak to a girl without them ending up being just a friend? -.-
The best way to master “flirting” is not to worry about it. Girls can’t resist a person who feels comfortable in her skin, is passionate about something (art? cooking? music?), has a lot of loving friends in her life, and has a sense of humor.
Most people also really love it when someone is interested in them—so if you like a girl, ask her about herself, pay attention to her likes/dislikes, what she likes to do for fun, what music she’s into etc. If you find yourself with some common interests, ask her to do something with you that you have in common.
If you develop a crush, let her know. That kind of brave soul-baring is also pretty magnetic. And if she doesn’t feel the same, take a day or two, and regroup. It just means that she wasn’t a good fit for you. It’s ok. And it’s time to try again…
Okay so me and this guy have become really close and I am starting to like him a lot more then just a friend. The only issue is he is talking to this other girl and she is absolutely terrible. he even admits he has a better time with me than her. She told me she's leading him on but he wont listen to me or anyone else. Me and him constantly play flirt and were always talking. But I have no idea what to do anymore. We hang out all the time but he says were only friends. What am i supposed to do?!
You are getting some mixed messages from him. And Mixed Messages mean Mixed Feelings. He is ALL mixed up. His roles and relationships are all mixed up. (he has a girlfriend, but likes you more and insists on calling you “just friends?”) You are getting mixed up in his mix. (Messy.)
I vote in favor of a relationship with someone who is not so mixed up. Time to take some space from this guy and keep your eyes out for someone whose actions and words line up.